Reading for me is something I have to steal and sneak snippets of time to accomplish. Between work, new love, family, wanting to write, wanting to knit, sew, make jewelry, learning to bake bread the old-fashioned way and hundreds of other want-tos and should-dos–reading falls into many “need niches” of my life. I am often reading something spiritual, something for writers or the writing craft, something for personal growth, something for work, and of course something for pure esape. The problem with reading for me is that I am an eternal learner so as you can see there is that journal there in the middle where I have to cogitate what I read. My current pile below is heavy on the craft of writing. As a teacher I find myself heavily writing during those school breaks and there is a one a coming J. Four of the six are on the topic of writing or writers. The other two consist of one spiritual growth and one personal growth on forgiveness. It is still open because boy is that a long process sometimes. There is no pure escape book because I am having trouble finding somethig that suits my need after having ravished both E. L. James’ 50 Shades and Stieg Larsson’s Girl With The Dragon Tattoo trilogies. Anyone have a suggestion for me?
Quick facts about PTSD include the estimate of 5 million people who suffer from PTSD at any one time in the United States and the fact that women are twice as likely as men to develop PTSD.
Forgiveness is a Choice by Robert D Enright
This blue book is open because even after a six week workshop with my therapist and a wonderful group of women seeking empowerment in our lives, I am still struggling with completing the cycle of forgiveness regarding an event in my past. Suffering from PTSD is what brought me to therapy and my faith, while sustaining me, has suffered a crack in the foundation of what I was raised with and what I am now as an adult choosing to re-believe or affirm. This book is a gut wrenching journey through the forgiveness process but well worth the turmoil. Once you till the ground that hardened and lay fallow from years of avoiding the issue, the book helps you prepare for sowing seeds of forgiveness that may or may not sprout. What it has done for me is remind me that the person in question is certainly more than the one sin I was focused on just as I am more than the one event that reaped my PTSD. I am still in the book four months later because I still have work to do and it is a process.
Dancing the Dream. . .the seven sacred paths of human transformation by Jamie Sams
My current spiritual growth book is rooted in Native American wisdom regarding our path lives. According to Sams we have seven sacred paths that are never forced on us but present themselves to us as opportunities and each path allows us to expand as humans. These paths are not linear but dovetail and allow us to embrace lessons on several paths at the same time. The seven paths are:
East Direction: We become illuminated; see a purpose for our life
South Direction: We learn to rise above our childish human reactions, compulsions, and unhealthy emotions
West Direction: We learn how to heal our pasts, our bodies, self-esteem
North Direction: We learn to share wisdom; live with compassionate non-judgmental open-hearts
Above Direction: We embrace unseen worlds of spirit; heavenly realms; unknown parts of universe; intangible forces in Creation
Below Direction: We learn to perceive unseen force; connections to spirit in all living things; how to bring our own spirits fully into our human body
Within/Now Direction: We gain access to all life in our universe within our human body and walk through life in a state of full spiritual awareness without separation or judgment
The connection throughout the reading to “mindfulness” is helpful as I grow and transform my PTSD self into my SELF.
“We all have energy and direct our thoughts/feelings into the world. That energy can implode on us and penetrate who we send it to resulting in loss. We carry invisible burden baskets containing our limitations, thoughts, emotional wounds.”
Mindfulness can help us break free from our fears and live a purposeful life not a purposeless life.
Rumors of Water by L. L. Barkat
As managing editor for The High Calling and four time novelist, Barkat shares what we all need to be reminded of —writing comes from life. What I enjoyed best about her novel was that she spoke about her life in reality, included how writing flows through her daily mindfulness and how it extends letting me follow where it goes, and the chapters were manageable for those of us needing quality guidance on a tight schedule. The reality of her conversation with the reader about writing and how it seeped into the day and presented opportunities and trifled with her or stumped her kept me shaking my head in the affirmative as to having the same experiences and enjoyable or angst filled moments as Barkat. So she makes you feel like a writer if you are working from your real life stance. Creativity has to have a foundation and why it can’t have it in your real life is beyond me.
The mindfulness of when writing enters her thoughts and how those thoughts flow through her are a journey I am sure I have never been still enough to capture in myself. The ride is well worth the ticket. As a teacher it tickles me best that she has fostered the love of writing in her daughters and they have the same connectedness to writing that she does. Even when the writing thought gets tangled and lost in an interruption, you can’t write without living.
“Writing starts with living. Living starts with somebody caring so much about something that they need to
drag you out of your writing chair and take you where you’ll be surprised to find your words.”
The manageability of the chapters meant, for me, that even after a 12 hour day of teaching (yes they exist) I could still treat myself to a one-on-one session with Barkat about the writing craft and maybe just maybe be rejuvenated enough to craft a draft before crashing for the night.. Not only that, but each chapter seemed to have a tangent I could take somewhere. Thanks Barkat!
As for the rest of my stack the next three books that I have yet to crack but will tonight include
The Novelist by L. L. Barkat The Artist’s Rule by Christine Valters Paintner & The Writer’s Journey by Christopher Vogler
Will I juggle all these books at once? Yes, I will. Will I try to write my own creative texts while I am juggling? Yes, I will. The book I am writing with my boyfriend; the one I am writing by myself, a poem/story I am writing for my six year old granddaughter—that only means another two have to be written for the five year old and two year old so they each have their own story from Gran’Ma. In my world, life is juggling and even when things drop there is something in that to capture from the pieces.